In Simpin' Ain't Easy, Vincent Gervasi reflects on his life experiences to find answers to why he keeps attracting unavailable women and giving in to harmful emotions. Vincent also struggled with alcoholism and had to "twelve-step" his way to escape his various simping habits, which he explains in this memoir. These challenges and his general observations of himself and the world at large caused him to develop a refined, no-nonsense viewpoint that seeks positive transformation and smart choices. He speaks about being accountable for one's actions and transforming from blaming others to searching inward for answers. From dating apps to property splits in divorce and a chaotic relationship with a stripper, Simpin' Ain't Easy takes us on a captivating and eye-opening journey that teaches emotional control and cultivating a healthy mindset in dating and other aspects of life.
With the use of urban slang and his varied experiences, Vincent Gervasi moves through the taboo subjects most people skirt or avoid in their memoirs. A reader must approach this book with an open mind as he shares his unadulterated perception of feminism and society, but he explains his views. Even though he takes responsibility for his own actions, Gervasi touches on his father’s mistakes and how some of his tendencies are relatable. Many readers will comprehend and understand his relationship struggles and will sympathize with the author over the loss of his dog. It’s easy to celebrate with Gervasi as he learns his self-worth and establishes better boundaries. The memoir shows perseverance and hope, making it an inspiration to some and a motivation for others. Simpin’ Ain’t Easy is a good selection for readers who enjoy memoirs and self-help books full of raw details, reflection, and personal growth.
